“5 SIMPLE THINGS GAY PARTNERS CAN DO THAT CAN MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE"

by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach

INTRODUCTION

You know how it is. You and your guy have been together for a long time now, way past “the honeymoon period” characteristic of the early stages of a relationship. You know each other inside and out and have worked hard to build a satisfying and comfortable lifestyle together as a committed couple. You’ve become settled into a familiar structure and routine in your lives. Life is great! And it is!

“TOP 10 QUALITIES OF GAY SUPER-COUPLES”
by Brian Rzepczynski, MSW, The Gay Love Coach
www.thegaylovecoach.com

INTRODUCTION

So what makes a healthy and lasting long-term gay relationship successful? Our society certainly doesn’t make it easy for us as gay men to date and mate with all the homophobia and discrimination that exists.

“BLOW HIM AWAY WITH A KICK-BUTT AWESOME FIRST IMPRESSION"
by Brian Rzepczynski, MSW, The Gay Love Coach
www.thegaylovecoach.com

INTRODUCTION

Whether you’re single and looking for “The One” or are trying to break into a social group or land a new job with a potential employer, you may only have one opportunity to peak someone’s interest and curiosity in who you are and what you might bring to the table. It’s commonly said that people form a first impression of someone within minutes, and sometimes even seconds, of meeting him.

GAY & SINGLE ON VALENTINE'S DAY: 8 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL STRATEGIES
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach
http://www.thegaylovecoach.com

INTRODUCTION

For those singles unhappy with their relationship status, Valentine’s Day can represent a sense of foreboding and dread as it highlights all the things they wish they had in their lives.

“CALENDAR OF LOVE TASKS FOR GAY COUPLES FOR THE NEW YEAR"
by Brian Rzepczynski, MSW, The Gay Love Coach
www.thegaylovecoach.com

INTRODUCTION

It’s the beginning of a New Year and people all around the globe are making resolutions and goals for self-improvement and personal growth. But while everyone is creating individual objectives to accomplish their ideals, an important part of our lives tends to be overlooked and neglected when going through this period of introspection and renewal. Our relationships!

"QUICK TIPS FOR BUILDING YOUR RISK-TAKER MUSCLES"
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach
http://www.thegaylovecoach.com

INTRODUCTION

There is probably no greater topic of importance to gay dating and relationship success than self-esteem. How you feel about yourself definitely translates itself in everything that you think, feel, and do. Having confidence and a belief that you have value and worth gives you that extra boost you need to take risks that will improve your life.

"GAY DATING & 'THE AVERAGE JOE'"
by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach
www.thegaylovecoach.com

OPENING REMARKS

Gay culture highlights youth, muscle, and good looks as valuable assets and commodities when it comes to sexuality and relationships. All one has to do is turn the pages of your favorite gay newspaper or magazine (that doesn’t necessarily have to be sexual in nature) and you’ll be distracted by photographs and advertisements of attractive men with chiseled bodies oozing sex appeal to titillate the senses.

"When 'Not Tonight, Honey' Becomes the Norm: Managing Sexless Gay Relationships; Part 2"

by Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach
http://www.thegaylovecoach.com

INTRODUCTION

In our first installment of this article series, you learned about inhibited sexual desire, a very common sexual disorder that plagues millions of couples, and gay partnerships are no exception to this epidemic. You learned about its symptoms, subtypes, and possible causes for its existence in a relationship.

It seems that on a regular basis I'm having to come here for guidance, but I think I'm looking for encouragement...or something.

I have previously posted that my partner is a "female impersonator", and I despise it. Well, a few months ago, he decided that he wanted to enter one of the pageants that would lead to the state pageant. I didn't want to feel like I was controlling him, so with some passive-aggressiveness, I sucked it up and let him.

“5 TIPS FOR OVERCOMING THE SINGLE SUMMERTIME BLUES
by Brian Rzepczynski, MSW, The Gay Love Coach
www.thegaylovecoach.com

INTRODUCTION

Summertime is here in all its glory! Everyone is coming out of hibernation and there’s a buzz on the streets as people come out in droves to partake in all the fairs, parades, sporting events, and art shows. People are soaking up the sun at the beaches, having barbecue picnics in the parks, and biking and hiking along the lakeshores and in the forest preserves.